If I am a Christian who experiences same sex attraction, will I become more heterosexual as I become more mature in my walk with Christ?
Some Christians in this situation will discover an
increased self-understanding
of heterosexual orientation.
I know couples who have come together as husband and wife after one or both
struggled with same-sex attraction, and who found great fulfillment and
joy in the gift of heterosexual marriage and the gift of children. But
this should not be the universal expectation.
Many other believers strive to be faithful to Christ and
obey the Word but experience no heterosexual pattern of sexual arousal.
Progressive sanctification through the Holy Spirit will come for
Christians who experience same-sex attraction, but that does not mean
they will become more heterosexual the more they grow in godliness.
Sanctification leads us into holiness and out of sin. This is why
sanctification may lead an individual with same-sex attraction into holy
celibacy, rather than heterosexuality.