How to defeat the enemies of natural marriage
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One of the best talks at our Australia conference
was given by Vice Vincent Batarelo (pronounced Vee-che), who led the fight in
Croatia to defend natural marriage.
Dr. Batarelo was also a natural to invite to our
conference, since he was born in Sydney to Croatian immigrants and grew up Down
Under. After he completed a BA and MA at Macquarie University, however, he
decided to return to the country of his ancestors, which had just won its
freedom from Serbian domination in communist Yugoslavia. He earned a Ph.D.
there and went to work as the director of the Family and Life Office of the
Archdiocese of Zagreb.
The sexual libertines were on the march, having convinced a
sympathetic left-wing government to start moving towards the legalization of
homosexual unions. They had the support of the major media, and even many of
the larger Croatian businesses.
But Dr. Batarelo decided they would not win. He said, “This is
not going to happen in my country, which has a Catholic culture and which
throughout history has been the eastern frontier of Christianity.” He could
draw upon the fact that 90 percent of Croatia’s population of 4.2 million is
Catholic, of whom some 30 percent attend Mass weekly. Indeed, more than half
are in Mass at least once a month, one of the highest percentages in any
European country.
He knew it would be a David vs. Goliath struggle. After
consulting with other pro-life, pro-family leaders in Croatia, such as Marijo
Zivkovic, he decided that it would be better to take the fight to the
liberal-left opposition in a popular referendum. This had a greater likelihood
of succeeding than trying to defeat the homosexual juggernaut in the
legislature, where gay activists, supported by the government and the media,
could threaten and suborn elected representatives.
When they first announced that they were gathering signatures
for a referendum, the reaction of the Left was simply to dismiss the effort to
preserve traditional marriage. “You are from the Middle Ages,” they said.
“You’re so backward. You will never succeed.”
The law required that the supporters of the marriage referendum
gather 145,000 signatures in a mere 15 days. The media kept reporting, falsely,
that they were far from their goal. In fact, with the support of 6,000
volunteers they gathered more signatures than were required. A referendum was
automatically triggered.
“We knew that, in order to win the referendum, we needed to
think strategically and act boldly,” remarked Dr. Batarelo. “We were in a chess
match and we needed to think many moves ahead.”
The first thing that Dr. Batarelo and the other organizers did
was to meet with the Catholic bishops. They wanted to asked for their
support—they did, and they got it—but they also wanted the bishops to stay in
the background. They didn’t want to give the opposition the advantage of
dismissing their concerns as religious. In religious settings they used
arguments based on Catholic doctrine as well as natural law arguments, but in
public they relied solely on the latter.
“In the public setting we used only natural law arguments,” Dr.
Batarelo recalled. “We reminded people that marriage has been around for 5,000
years, and that it is found in every culture, in every place and in every
time.”
They said that the battle over the definition of marriage had nothing
to do with homosexuals per se, but had to do with defeating radical leftist
ideology. This approach worked very well in Croatia, where people remember the
bad old days of Communism. It also reminded people that the liberal-Left
government was supporting a redefinition of marriage.
They also were very careful to adopt a positive tone in their
public pronouncements, as well as in private conversations with friends and
neighbors. “We didn’t want to portray homosexuals as the enemy,” said the good
doctor. “We called them our friends on the Left. But we did want to make clear
the advantages to society and children of protecting natural marriage.”
They were relentlessly positive, crafting their arguments for
natural marriage based on the natural law, arguing the positive benefits of
marriage between a man and a woman. They actively avoided talking about the
negative consequences for society and children of legally recognizing
homosexual liaisons. Natural
Marriage = a Woman and a Man, their flyers read. Everything else is something else.
They also were able to reduce the media bias in favor of
homosexual unions by carrying out a study of the media broadcasts, which showed
that there was a bias against natural marriage. After the study came out, the
major media were somewhat fairer in their reporting.
Finally, they were able to neutralize the media bias in another
way as well, by turning to the social media. “If you don’t have the mass media
on your side,” says Dr. Batarelo, “then use the social media.” By Twittering,
Tweeting, Facbooking, and YouTubeing, they were able to create a media presence
in the social media that won over large numbers of people to their cause.
At the end of the day, the referendum succeeded. A majority of
those who voted—voting is not compulsory in Croatia—voted in favor of natural
marriage.
The next big challenge, according to Dr. Batarelo, will come
over the Life issue. Abortion is still legal in Croatia, having been introduced
in the Communist era. But with the organization they have built in defending
natural marriage, says the good doctor, “We will succeed in protecting Life
from conception.”
The marriage victory in Croatia is a model for such grassroots
movements in other countries. It proves that the homosexual lobby can be
defeated by a well-planned, well-organized campaign.
