A pastor speaks on the Supreme Court and Homosexual Marriage
Now that the Supreme Court has issued its sweeping ruling in favor
of same-sex marriage, we can expect an avalanche of commentary, analysis, and
punditry. I’m not a law professor, a politician, a talk show host, or a public
intellectual (whatever that is). I’m a pastor. I study and teach the Bible for
a living. Which means, among all the things I may not be an expert on, I may be
able to say something meaningful from the Scriptures. So as we pour over legal
opinions and internet commentary, let us not forget what the Bible says.
The Bible says the Lord alone is God and we should have no other
gods before him (Ex. 20:2-3). Not
the state, not the Supreme Court, not our families, not our friends, not our
favorite authors, not our cultural cache. No gods but God.
The Bible says we should love our neighbors as ourselves (Matt. 22:39). And who is your neighbor
deserving of such love? Wrong question, just worry about being the neighbor
you’d want for yourself (Luke 10:25-37).
The Bible says love is not the same as unconditional affirmation (James 5:19-20). Love is patient and kind.
It does not envy or boast. It does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices with
the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things. (1 Cor. 13:4-7).
The Bible says that disciples of Jesus will be hated as Jesus was
hated (John 15:18-25; 2 Tim. 3:12). If the world loves us, it is
not a sign of our brilliance, but that we belong to the world.
The Bible says that when reviled we should not revile in return (1 Peter 2:21-25). We should love our
enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matt. 5:44).
The Bible says Jesus came into the world to save sinners,
especially the worst of sinners (1 Tim. 1:15). That means people like me,
like you, and like the Apostle Paul who at one time opposed everyone and
everything he later came to love and defend.
The Bible says marriage is between a man and a woman (Gen. 1:27-28; 2:18-25; Mal. 2:15; Matt. 19:4-6; Mark 10:6-9) and that homosexual practice
is sin (Lev. 18:22; 20:13; Rom. 1:18-32; 1 Cor. 6:9; 1 Tim. 1:10; Jude 7), but a sin from which we can be washed
clean (1 Cor. 6:9-11).
Any Christian who really believes the Bible must believe all of
the Bible. You can’t applaud what Jesus says about loving your neighbor from
Leviticus 19, if Leviticus 18and 20 are throwaway chapters. You can’t unpack
the good news of Romans 8, if Romans 1 is overstuffed with cultural
baggage. You can’t marvel at the goodness of God’s creation, if there is no
good design in how he created things. Either the Bible is God’s Word or we are
sufficiently godlike to determine which words stay and which words go.
The cultural breezes are blowing against us. The worldly winds are
stiff in our faces. But the hard parts of the Bible are no less true for being
less popular. The Bible says what it says, so let us be honest enough to say
whether we think what the Bible says is right or wrong. Diarmaid MacCulloch, a
decorated church historian and gay man who left the church over the issue of
homosexuality, has stated the issue with refreshing candor:
This is an issue of biblical authority. Despite much
well-intentioned theological fancy footwork to the contrary, it is difficult to
see the Bible as expressing anything else but disapproval of homosexual
activity, let alone having any conception of homosexual identity. The only
alternatives are either to cleave to patterns of life and assumptions set out
in the Bible, or say that in this, as in much else, the Bible is simply wrong.
(The Reformation: A History, 705).
Yes, those are the only alternatives. I know books are right now
being written by the dozens trying to make the case that the Bible is really
keen on gay marriage, but it can’t be done. Not with exegetical and historical
integrity.
Not with gospel integrity either.
A holy God sends his holy Son to die as an atoning sacrifice for
unholy people so that by the power of the Holy Spirit they can live holy lives
and enjoy God forever in the holy place that is the new heaven and new earth.
Is this the story celebrated and sermonized in open and affirming churches?
What about twenty years from now? And what if we flesh out the gospel story and
include the tough bits about the exclusivity of Christ and the reality of
hell? What if the story centers on Calvary, not as a generic example that
love (defined in whatever we choose) wins, but as beautifully scandalous
picture of a love so costly that God sent his Son into the world to be the
wrath-bearing propitiation for our sins? What if the story summons us to
faith and repentance? What if the story calls us to lay down
everything–our ease, our desires, our family, our preferences, our sexuality,
our stuff, our very selves–for the sake of the Storyteller? What if part of the
story is believing that every jot and tittle in the Storybook is completely
true?
I’d rather not talk about homosexuality again. But the world
hasn’t stopped talking about it. And the Bible hasn’t stopped saying what it
has always said. So let’s not be shrill and let’s not be silent. If you already
know what the Bible says about homosexuality, don’t forget what the Bible says
about all of life and godliness.
We can be right about marriage and still wrong about everything
else that matters. And if you like most everything else the Bible says, why
would you on this matter of homosexuality decide the Bible suddenly can’t be
trusted? If you won’t count the cost here, what else will you be willing to
sell? The support for homosexual behavior almost always goes hand in hand with the
diluting of robust, 100-proof orthodoxy, either as the cause or the effect. The
spirits which cause one to go wobbly on biblical sexuality are the same spirits
which befog the head and heart when it comes to the doctrine of creation, the
historical accuracy of the Old Testament, the virgin birth, the miracles of
Jesus, the resurrection, the second coming, the reality of hell, the plight of
those who do not know Christ, the necessity of the new birth, the full
inspiration and authority of the Bible, and the centrality of a bloody cross.
If Jesus is right and the Scriptures were spoken by God himself (Matt. 19:4-5) and utterly unbreakable (John 10:35), then the place to start when
it comes to something as fundamental as marriage is also the place to end, and
that’s by asking the question “But what does the Bible say?”
As Christians living in the midst of controversy, we must keep three things open:
our heads, our hearts, and our Bibles. Don’t settle for slogans and put-downs.
Don’t look to bumper stickers and Facebook avatars for ethical direction. And
don’t give up on the idea that God has a clear word and a good word on this
issue. God has already spoken, and he specializes in gracious reminders, so
long as we stay humble, honest, and hungry for the truth. After all, man does
not live by bread alone (or sex alone), but by every word that comes from the
mouth of God (Deut. 8:3; Matt. 4:4).