What Caused Me to Have SSA? Part 2 – The Role of Fathers and Mothers
Image via Wikipedia The Role of Fathers and Mothers Introduction Nature? Nurture? The debate about what causes same-sex attractions in males is endless – and so far, unresolved. This much is true: we simply do not know for certain what causes it! In the last issue of “Counseling Insights” , I discussed how “sensitivity” seems to play an important role – one that may have existed from birth (i.e., “nature”). While there is absolutely no evidence of a “gay gene” that automatically makes males develop same-sex attractions ( SSA ), many such males express that they “have always been extra sensitive” (i.e., extra sensitive to physical aggression, to verbal critique from authority figures, and to the creative senses). But is there a developmental (i.e., “nurture”) explanation of why young males might become extra sensitive? Those who ascribe to “psychoanalytic theories” believe there is. Discussion By now, you have heard it stated thousands of times: “ male homosexuality i